Use the right hand, full grip with fingers under the palm (not the fingertips!)
The hand should be midway between the both of you.
Shake with a firm squeeze: not too hard, not too soft.
The optimal number of shakes: three, with medium vigor.
A hand shake should not last more than 2-3 seconds.
Maintain eye contact throughout.
Pair handshake with an appropriate verbal statement ("nice to meet you," versus "did you just come from a seafood restaurant, because that hand sure is clammy!")